Or let your fingers linger and stroke around her entrance to take advantage of the massive amount of nerves there. But, unlike when you were a kid, you can really turn up the kissing ante to make it even sexier with your now-mature skills: The first is neck ache, which can be handled by switching position. Alternatively, try putting a pillow under her butt to raise the area slightly. Lick there and see what reaction you get. And then start with your hands before you venture down south. All the women in her study of year olds who'd had sex also had oral sex, she found. From lying down to sitting up, 69, or even sideways resting your head on her inner thigh helps deal with neck ache. Plainly put, it gets the job done. It goes without saying that the more aroused a woman is from foreplay, the easier it is for her to orgasm in oral play as the genital area becomes increasingly engorged with blood the more she's turned on. Try lots of positions and find out which ones work best for you and your partner. Or was it when she massaged her breasts, smiled, locked eyes with you, moaned and touched herself, all while making sure you finished? Start your tongue action, and see what kind of movement elicits moans of pleasure, then stick to that one for a while. A great place to start, recommended by many experts, is talking to your partner about the ways her oral sex experience could be better. How long do you need to go for? When you throw in different moves that are also stimulating, you take the oral sex game into a whole other world. The willingness to learn and the ability to adapt are two things that will mean more to your girlfriend than doing the exact right thing.