I'm not one for PDAs, but to show everyone that he cares is really special. We walk in the bedroom, and he expects me to just flip on my back, automatically be wet, and ready for him to start thrusting. Let your mouth wander as she allows, but pay attention to her responses. And, that trust and allowance can provide for incredible physical and mental release and pleasure. I want my hands pinned back with him taking me. Engaging in a little power play can be a fun and exhilarating way to explore kink in the bedroom. Put me against the wall and pull my clothes off. Kiss the inside of my thighs! Some relationships are harder to get over than others. We want to feel appreciated. When you finally do make contact with the clitoris, go slowly, build anticipation and pay attention to how she responds. Sensual Sex This the type of sex that most men already assume women want. This answer came from women in all walks of life: It's just that there are certain things many women really want in bed that aren't common knowledge and, for most guys, unless you ask her outright, these things usually won't come up. Are you using it as just a warmup for intercourse, or are you really taking your time to be the best you can be down under? Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter the time or the place. Light strokes on cheeks, neck, and back get extra points, as these areas are usually ignored at least initially.