There are times, however, when women will rent out a chic hotel room and invite over a "policeman" or a "fireman. The bachelorette will probably get a lap dance or two. Although clich by now, the condom-laden veil or tiara is an ever-popular choice, followed by dozens of lollipops stuck to her outfit, accompanied by the sign "A Buck To Suck," usually worn ever so elegantly around her neck, or stuck to her chest. If you are curious enough to want to know what really happens, then read on and discover what your fiance and her girlfriends are really up to. Some women opt to have the parties in the comfort of someone's home and invite a few special guests over She may have to get a guy to give her his boxers, she may have to consume a body shot off a stranger's neck, or she may even have to kiss a guy who has the same name as her husband. Or, they might go to a gentlemen's club and strip themselves, to commemorate their last night of freedom. But, after talking to my guy friends, it seems that guys, on the other hand, don't really have a clue what goes on at a bachelor ette party. One just hopes that it's not the same strip joint that her husband is having his bachelor party at. After many a drinking game, the women may get rowdy enough to get the bachelorette to oblige their college-type dares. The possibilities for this one are endless; it all depends on how far her friends can and will make her go. So, what does that sign mean, anyway? If she refuses to do any of the above, she will be forced to remove an article of clothing. Although we might not necessarily want to know all the sordid details, women have an idea about what goes on at bachelor parties: It means that if the bachelorette in question approaches you and asks if you would like to buy one of her lollipops for a dollar, you should say, "Hell yeah!