Millions of sperm are present in each ejaculation, to increase the chances of one fertilizing an egg or ovum see sperm competition. Try to engage in oral sex during foreplay and before penetration. While much of scripture has served to promote chastity, celibacy , and heterosexual marriages and denounce actions such as premarital sexual behavior and homosexuality, some denominations and groups including but not limited to Feminist , Queer , and Black Theologians have used these texts and others to further sex-positivity within a Christian context. Continued Treatment of Vulvodynia: You get attached when you bleed. However, it is an excellent translation for [the Biblical term] porneia, which basically referred to any kind of sex outside of marriage Still worried about being a virgin in college? During the late 16th and 17th centuries in France, male impotence was considered a crime, as well as legal grounds for a divorce. Therefore, a girl can minimize the chance of pain and bleeding the first time and prepare her body for penetration by making sure she is comfortable and relaxed. Rather, I sort of lost many different virginities, and I have many yet to lose. These might include certain soaps, medications , or douches. Some women describe it as a knife-like pain or like an acid poured on the skin. Any bleeding that happens should not be the same level as a period. Building up your loss of virginity as a BFD no pun intended can only lead to getting let down. Avoid perfumed creams or soaps, pads or tampons, and contraceptive creams or spermicides. Lubricant will ease a lot of the pain by reducing friction.