Yes, they're not thinking of the other person, but I don't think they set out to hurt them. He also said some females seem to prefer texts to sex. They are literally sexual machines. As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other — something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control. So find a way to do that. He was so fit he could have passed as a rugby player. There has been an incredible shift since the Fifties when three-quarters of women and half of all men had tied the knot by their mids Many men still aren't ready to commit by their mids, it seems to me. He wanted to take me to dinner back in London, to bed, to heaven. So I asked him how old he was and he replied Women over 30 are in their sexual primes and physically crave sex more. This is not surprising. A man in his 30s who pursues a woman in her 50s is not usually looking for happy ever after with her. It was this that led to my first experience with an older woman. Kinda makes me think these older women are onto something! Why is it, he asked, that they analyse every word, searching for hidden meanings, getting hysterical if he puts only one 'x' at the end of a message instead of three? There were quite a few at the wedding so, like any intrepid journalist hot on a story, I spoke to many of them about why they and their peers were choosing older partners. Men think young women see lovemaking merely as a weapon in the battle to make a partner commit.