If you've had different partners, has intercourse felt better with certain ones? One of those couples wrote to our sex columnist and acclaimed TED speaker , Esther Perel, about how to bring other people into their bedroom. Particularly during receiving oral sex, sensation sometimes fades, and while it feels good, it doesn't feel "as good as it should", and I then begin to "get in my head" about whether my partner is enjoying themselves, and I'm eager to move on to other activities. However, this doesn't mean she has had more sex than someone who has only been with one or two partners. Do you shave, wax or exfoliate between your legs? I have a Paraguard copper, non-hormonal IUD for birth control. Have you had sex with another woman? I realized that I had been having "wet dreams " for years while asleep! The 5, respondents self-selected and self-identified as men 18 and above. Some males have a "stronger" taste than others to their seminal fluids, and that can be unpleasant, although it's uncommon that it's that pungent. And I really like helping, although using tools like dildoes or massagers is much easier than stimulating digitally, as I have somewhat small hands. When I took the pill in college, I had many disruptive side effects, from increased cramping, bloating, moodiness, and irritability, to more frequent yeast infections, to digestive troubles, to lack of any desire to be in the same room with a lover much less have sex with them, and even to escalated symptoms of anxiety and depression.