He says it was tough for girls to say no to such a big celebrity. Kelly has created a situation that gives him total control of the women he sleeps with, including what they wear, who they contact, how they use social media, and even when they may go to the bathroom. The Patrice Jones case In her lawsuit, Patrice Jones said that, when she was 16, she had a nine-month sexual relationship with R. The two discussed the lawsuits and allegations in detail, and also discussed why something so hurtful could go unremarked upon. She realized she was pregnant in June , and alleged that Kelly forced her to get an abortion that he paid for the following September. She believes some of the girls in the 'sex dungeon' were underage. One ex-friend suggested he was angry that Rev. Three of the women who sued Kelly reached out-of-court settlements. The girl — now 19 — has refused to cooperate with prosecutors, sources said, and the matter has deeply divided her family. Mosley stressed in a jailhouse interview with The Post last week that the tape he discussed with Williams, involving DeLeon and Kelly in a menage a trois, does exist. At the time, Kelly denied that he was the man in the video although many mentioned the gold records visible in the background of the clips. Aaliyah became a star three years later when Kelly produced her debut album in She was an aspiring artist, and in her lawsuit, she said she was "lied to" by R. In June , Kelly was hit with 21 counts of child pornography stemming from the tape.