John said that one of the reasons he hooks up with dudes is the feeling of being wanted. Unfortunately, society limits sexual expression by placing people in boxes, essentially stereotyping the sex roles that are considered 'inappropriate' and 'appropriate' in culture. By contrast, only 36 percent of men reporting receiving anal sex and 34 percent of men reporting giving it. He still enjoys sex with men, He still identifies as straight. When we first began talking he said most people would consider him bisexual; however, he has no desire to be in a relationship with another man. You want to feel wanted, and why not feel wanted and get amazing head? We need to move away from a binary mode of thinking and acknowledge that whatever people do in their bedrooms is their business, as long as there's explicit consent involved," said Reynolds. In making fantasies real, be prepared to like it, hate it, be disappointed, relieved, indifferent, or have many other related feelings. Yesterday I was torn up over my actions, but today, I feel this sense of relief finally realizing that I acted on this lifelong urge, figured out that I really didn't enjoy it, and don't have any intention or plans on doing it again. A study reported that two large population surveys found "the majority of gay men had similar numbers of unprotected sexual partners annually as straight men and women. TL;DR - Dude sucked me off before I told him to stop, then I sucked that dude off, and mid-blow, realized 'wtf, nope, not into this' - don't know if I should just leave it at that, or tell wifey. The issue I'm having is, should I ever tell my wife? Guys don't turn me on at all, but the idea of having a penis in my mouth, for whatever reason, is absolutely scintillating! Told him I wasn't sure about continuing, he said that's fine, he understands, and left after finishing himself off in his condom. Or they may dream about playing sports with a pro, having lunch with a senator, or even hooking up with a celebrity. If you're a straight woman and your boyfriend likes to bottom, there's not much you can do to satisfy that "feminine" desire without introducing sex toys into the mix. He is also married and has a son.