My girl and I've just started having sex, and so we're trying out all kinds of sex positions. Our best sex position is man on top. The correct movement in sex depends on what position you're using. Making deep thrusts will make you come quickly, anyway, so even if your girl wants to feel you thrusting you may find that sex doesn't last very long! And that's every time you make love! That helps you communicate much better. Then you can churn your penis around in a circular motion by moving your hips around in a circle. Obviously if you are in the rear entry position, then you make your pelvic thrusts in a different way - you move your pelvis back and forth from the hips. You the woman have one of his legs between yours and you then grind yourself against his thigh. Well, like most men I like to see my wife's behind in the air - it really gets me thinking, I want to be in there! Whatever, the eye contact is important to us - it makes sex more connected, more exciting, more arousing. I need my clitoris to be stimulated to reach orgasm, and one position where we can do this is with my man on top when I have my legs vertically up with him kneeling in front of them and pushing into me. This isn't directly an answer to your question, but when I started having sex I found that I couldn't feel where my penis was in her vagina because we were using condoms. Should I be thrusting, which is how I thought it would be, or should I be doing what I was doing, which was sliding my whole body up and down hers, so as to move my cock in and out of her vagina? We Have The Answer! Or you can make small in and out movements that stimulate the outer part of her vagina. And to feel her coming while I'm still inside her is amazing.