So in the spirit of saving the world's problems and probably many of your own , one self-given orgasm at time, I will share with you 69 different ways to pleasure yourself. Masturbation relieves stress, gets out our pent-up frustrations, cures headaches and menstrual cramps, makes people happy, and can bring on labor for those who need to get the baby out. There are lots of things that you can do with your hands during sex. Remember that touch is such an important part of sexy times so take advantage of the array of things you can do with your fingers. Do you spread them out and grab onto the covers? If we all had more self-love, we'd be doing more deep breaths in and slow breaths out and positively altering the air we give our plants. When you have a sex toy in your hand, you won't be wondering how to use it. If he's putting the P in the V, try adding some clitoral stimulation into the mix. And if bae's head is too far away to play with, you can always run your hands through your own hair. PIN May is Masturbation Month and in honor of it I'm going to let you all in on a little secret that I percent believe to be the ultimate truth. And we haven't even gotten into different body parts yet. Some people can actually orgasm from it alone. Not only will grabbing onto something help brace you, it will also stop you from wondering what the heck you should be doing with your hands. They can pinch, poke, caress, tap, rub, well, you get the picture. What are you waiting for?