Human beings are infinitely complex. Besides, you also hold hands with your three-year-old niece. What excites him about the thought that she is enjoying herself? Biting before your partner's ready While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort and might even lessen the chances of any further action or simply scare them off. The top three reasons why both men and women become sexual have nothing to do with either horniness or love. I wanted to express my love for my partner. Also supporting this theory were findings that suggest sex without emotional involvement was a more powerful motivator for men than for women. We want sex because our continued existence as a species depends on it. To boost self-esteem, keep a partner from seeking sex elsewhere, or feeling a sense of duty or pressure for example, a partner insists on having sex Continued The Difference Between the Sexes Generally speaking, men seek sex because they like how it feels. The customer buys physical sexual release for money, plain and simple. If someone touches your genitals clumsily, or when you're not ready or do not want to be touched, the contact will be painful, offensive, and disgusting, not exciting and pleasurable. Thus, it is worthwhile to spend some time on what scientists have learned about sexuality. You care about the emotions involved and the relationship. Your body parts do not charge the relationship with sexual pleasure. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.