People who identify as lesbian , gay , bi or heterosexual can give and express pleasure in many ways. I was so nervous! Again, it is all about normalizing lesbian sex and realizing that it is not that much different than sex straight people enjoy. Am I a lesbian? Then I asked if I could kiss her. This is after all. And then I started going down on her, and even though I had never done it before, it just felt really natural. Some ladies enjoy experimenting with all kinds of toys, games, and gadgets, and others do not. Of course they do! Sometimes they use their fingers to penetrate the vaginal opening or to penetrate the anal opening anal sex. I had no idea what I was doing. However, you can never really be sure what draws someone to switch up their sexual preferences, and who said we have to justify it anyway? Communicating, experimenting, and having fun are what it is all about. Having an open mind and listening properly will keep this topic from being shrouded in mystery, awkwardness, or fear of offending, and be considered the wonderful, fulfilling, awesome thing it is. We love going to new places, learning about new cultures, eating in new restaurants, etc.