Rajash Lama, 48, believed he was talking to a schoolgirl, but instead she was an adult woman used as decoy for a paedophile hunter group. A lot of the walls between us came down and the secretive teenager who hid away in her room started spending more time with the rest of our family. There is almost nothing that could have shocked me more. I am so proud of her for taking the time to keep trying to learn who she is and what she wants for herself. After that night, she seemed to realize she truly could tell me anything and I would listen to her. No, she never watched any videos of children, and no, she is not attracted to children. No, she never made any porn videos or posted them online. I would never have believed a late-night conversation about porn with my year-old daughter would end up being a defining moment in our relationship, but it was. As we sat there in the dark, I asked her some pointed questions and she gave some very uncomfortable answers. Confusion completely swallowed my fear. No, she never contacted anyone, and no one ever contacted her asking her to send nude pictures of herself. I reminded her of the words I have said to her countless times since she was born: The woman pretending to be Sam told Lama she was 14 years old and from Newport and he told her was 25 years old. I sat up quietly. Even after banishing her fear of the FBI swarming our home, her nerves were not immediately calmed.