Did they clam up? More than a couple times I had woken up in the same bed as them, fully aware that it was a pretty weird situation. I think we were both sober at that point. Overall, it just hurt and he was trying to make me shut up in case his roommates came in. If he seems uninterested in trying again, open up the dialogue to get him curious about how much better the next time will be. He did a lot of uncomfortable stuff to me that I tried to protest, but the more I resisted the more aware and panicked I became, so I just sat back and waited it out. Seriously, who'd want a penis when it's such an obvious barometer of anxiety? I asked him if he had a razor, which caused him to spurt out in impatience. It was at that moment we both knew it would happen. That means multiple partners for him, and lots of heartbreak for you. Maybe he finished quickly…but left you still wanting more. The day we met, I was extremely nervous. If he only texts late at night or gives no effort to make plans that involve being outside of his home, take note of that. Since I had this big crush on him, I was down to hang out. Not really, I mean it is a bummer that I had a bad experience but I got over it, and I am glad I got it over with. Roughly five minutes later, my sister called me and I answered and she said, "Hey sorry to be a cockblock but the pizza guy is here so you need to answer the door.