You should call triple zero and ask for an ambulance if you: I had an aunt who bled after each time she had sex with my uncle I learned this after the fact She ignored it for too long because see did not like docters. If the anal area is extremely painful and swollen, a cold compress or covered ice pack, such as a bag of frozen peas wrapped in a clean towel, may be used to relieve the pain and swelling. Anal injuries can also be caused by sexual activity involving insertion of objects, fingers or a penis through the anus and into the rectum. If any pain or bleeding from the anal area is associated with sex, stop sex and abstain until reviewed by a doctor. Sometimes the muscles in and around the anal region go into spasm, and this can lead to a tightening of the sphincter that makes passing stool painful. She is not with us today. Food and Drug Administration. Bes tof luck and hope it works out for you. I'm going to see if I can find it. I had an experience when I bleed vaginally Two times. WebMD understands that reading individual, real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a qualified health care provider. The opinions expressed in WebMD User-generated content areas like communities, reviews, ratings, blogs, or WebMD Answers are solely those of the User, who may or may not have medical or scientific training. Take a Self-Assessment Important: Koolman is right, loss of a lot of blood is not safe. Health Solutions From Our Sponsors. Blood means there has been an injury and you need to make sure you're okay!